Incase you want to read more about my thoughts on emotions in general:
Emotions are information. Because they are felt and carried
in the body, they are the doorway to the underlying thought behind it. Over the
years, I have put the following table together. It has served me well to tune
into the thoughts behind the emotions.
Emotion |
What it
indicates (Self-talk) |
How it
affects our Energy |
Anger |
An injustice
occurred. It’s not fair |
Increases
energy, pushes towards action (Preparation for fight) |
Sadness |
I lost
something of value that I might never regain |
Decreases
energy, pulls towards inaction (preparation for freeze) |
Anxiety |
The demands
of the situation are beyond my abilities and resources |
Increase in
nervous energy (preparation for flight) |
Envy |
I want what
he/she has |
Increases
energy to learn/achieve. Pushes towards action |
Shame, Guilt |
I did a bad
thing and I deserve to be punished |
Decrease in
energy, withdraw from others |
Anticipation,
Excitement |
Something
good is going to happen |
Increase in
energy |
Happiness |
Something
good has happened/is happening |
Increase in
energy and well-being |
Overwhelm |
I feel too
much. Visibly reduced WOT (Window of Tolerance) |
Shutdown,
dissociation, catatonia (Possible Trauma response) |
Emotions are addictive- they have an electrical charge and
as a result, emotions carried in our bodies for long become our ‘vibe’ (Candace
Pert- Feeling Go(o)d) and Molecules Of emotion and Lisa Feldman Barret’s- How
emotions are made are both excellent resources to explore this connection
further)
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